Teach people more about self confidence, you gain self confidence
If you have been reading and educating about way to be more self confidence, here is one of the killer tips that could give you a large boost on your self confidence.
There is an old saying, if you want to be proficient in a subject, be the person who teach the subject. I actually find this piece of advice to be true. If you want to attain great self confidence, try to teach other people how to become a self confident person. You will realize that the more you teach, the more self confidence you gain.
During my secondary school time, I used to find that math is actually a tough subject. Math is a great subject teaches us how to integrate our knowledge. You learnt the formula and you applied to it. Sometimes, it require other formula that you learn from other chapter. During the math exam, the solution of the question always require our integration of all the math theories we learn. If we are to learn math by memorizing then we can be assured that we will fail.
I used to think that if you want to be good at math, you have to be good in creativity. That is the kind of belief that I adopted from the first day I stepped into school. Am I a creative person? I would tell you no because capricorn aren’t should be a creative person. They should be a rigid person. Hey! We cannot blame anyone who trusted astrology so much, especially people in high school year. By believing capricorn is not creative has become a limiting belief to me that make me a zero in math.
One day, there was a sudden change occurs to me. I was curious about what is the person beside me. He has been mowing for a few hour. Looking down on the single piece of paper and I was wondering what is so interesting on the paper. I give him a punch in his shoulder and said
“Hey! Boss, What are you doing? “
“Nothing, I was trying to solve this question.”
“Oh I see, let me see for a second”
It was a calculus question. The question require us to prove something equal to something. It is not a question that I was capable in thinking up a solution. However, this time is different. There is something driven me to solve this question. I love to help people, if I can help this guy on this question that he had been struggling for hours, I believe he will appreciate for that. So, I started thinking. I don’t even have the mood for listening what the teacher are teaching. All I want to do now is to solve this question.
The bell has already rang, I have not solve it. I took back home, not even have the mood to take my bath or to change my cloth. I sit down, put the question on the table and start thinking again. I asked myself is there a need to use this formula or is there a need to subsitute x with y. I have been putting the effort to think up.
Almost 9’0 clock, I haven’t eat, bath or what. That time, I am already exhausted. “OKla, I gotta give up, it is too hard”. I went to bath.
As my tension started to relieve, the idea came to me. It just suddenly pop out. I simply finish the bath, rushed to the table with full excitement, started working again. IT WORKED! IT WORKED!!!!!! WOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! I was like shouting WOOHOOOO!!!!!
The next day I went back to the student, I told him
“Hey! Hey! I have solved it”
“Really, I have solved it long ago,hahahaha”
Oh! That is too bad.But from that day onward, math is one of my favorite subject. In fact, the more I teach, the better I become.
It is true that if you want to be proficient in something, all you have to do is to teach them to others. The more you teach, the more you will become. If you are low on self confidence, I believe you searched all over the net tips to become more self confident. If you want to become more self confident using these tips. Try to teach it to other people.
The logic behind this is because when you teach somebody something, it will reinforce the belief. Even though you didn’t believe it but because you teach it to other people, you justify to your subconscious mind that it is true. When you teach people how to become a self confident person, you justify to your subconscious mind two things. First, I must be a self confident person in order to teach them. Second, if I am teaching them something, then that something must be true for me.
If your subconscious mind accept the fact you are self confident, then you will see your self confidence have been boosting. There is another benefit, sometimes you will realize some method that you never seen it before at the net. Then, this method came from you originally. The best people is the one who teaches the most.
That is why HyperSelfImprovement is created. Its purpose is to teach people how to improve ourselves. The best way to improve ourselves is to teach people how to improve. If you are stressful, teach people how to relieve stress, if you are addicted, teach people how to prevent addiction. Sometimes, there are method to improve ourselves is effective but we don’t believe it. How to reinforce th belief? It is to share it out. As simple as possible.
Low on self confidence? Then be its teacher. However, there is one condition, you have to teach it purely because of the desire to help other people to grow better. It is because the desire to contribute is a high driving force to change yourselves. Teaching somebody something you don’t believe is a tough job. Especially self confidence, if you don’t have confident in yourself how can you teach? Yes! Of course you can teach, by arousing the pure desire to help other. When the only thing you want is to help others to become a better person, then you will arouse enthusiasm in what you are teaching.
Teaching something without enthusiasm is equal zero. Only by teaching with enthusiasm then only you can convince your subconscious mind to believe it. How to ignite enthusiasm spirit? By arousing the pure desire of contributing will ignite it.
How can I be good in math to teach math?
By having the basic desire to help other to improve math.
So now, how can you become a self confidence person to teach self confidence?
You already know the answer…..
